The Circle of Life

It's times like this that I wish I wrote more eloquently.This morning when we arrived at the Haven we got the news that one of the babies, Kelly, passed away last night. Kelly and her twin, Kelsey, were really tiny. A few days ago we all really noticed that Kelly's breathing was really labored and she was really fussy. Yesterday both girls went to the hospital for the second time in a few days and Kelly just didn't make it. Dr. Weaver talked with us before we even came to Africa that it was a possibility we might be there during the death of one of the babies, but we were all praying it wouldn't happen. It was tough, but we went on a did our morning therapy sessions. I think we all gave a little extra love to the other babies this morning. The babies were extra smiley and quickly cheered us up. Especially when we saw Bennett, who was dressed in a pink bear suit! We never know what crazy outfits these babies will be in.After lunch, we all loaded up in Red Fred (Khaki Jackie was in Lusaka picking up Carrie Tullos) and it was an experience. He was not all he's cracked up to be! He sure looks cool, but it took a few tries putting it in first gear just to get out of our driveway. Luckily we made it to the Haven safely! We had to wait for the family to get back from Kalomo for the burial, so we ended up having about an hour to just love on the babies. No therapy, just love. It was much needed! When everyone arrived, we walked out behind the Haven for the burial. The preacher from the church here on the mission spoke and said a few prayers (all in Tongan). While the men took turns shoveling the dirt back onto the grave, the women sang hymns. It was so hard and we all cried, even though we know Kelly is in Jesus' arms now. We are all praying that this is the only burial we have to have this summer. We love all of these babies so much.

When we made it back home, the Tulli had returned from Lusaka with Mrs. Carrie. We all greeted Ian with a "happy birthday!" because today is his 13th birthday! He was so excited. For his "party" we drove out to Jordan's Rock and roasted hot dogs and ate homemade guacamole! It was a lot of fun. This little rock is literally in the middle of the bush. We watched the sun go down and right at sunset, we surprised Ian. We had brought our speakers and played "Circle of Life" while Dr. Tullos held Ian up like Simba. It was hilarioussss and Ian couldn't stop laughing. Then we had cake and roasted marshmallows as the sun continued to set. It was beautiful! Perfect ending to a long day. We mourned death and celebrated life. It really is the circle of life.
On Jordan's Rock! Love you babe!

Simba... or Ian!

Gorgeous sunset to end the day... look closely- you can see the first star of the night!

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Anonymous said...

Dear Rachel: As a mother, it is so painful to learn of this precious child's death and that my "child" had to experience it. Life is difficult and you are seeing some of the hardest lessons there are...I am proud of you Rachel and all the others for the work you are doing--God is smiling on you I know. I am praying for you all in a special way for comfort and understanding. I love you, Mom.

Anonymous said...

Your words were beautifully written. You all are such a blessing there and your circle of life is becoming so much richer. I am praying for all of you!

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